Listen.

I believe many of you have experienced the same thing I’m currently experiencing. Being at this age - OK la I’m so close to 30 now - you’ll be receiving red bombs (wedding invitations) and questions like ‘when is your turn?‘. I don’t know about you, but my standard answer is always, I’ll get married when I feel like getting married. I mean, really thank you for asking but if I say don’t know, aren’t you just gonna bug me with the disadvantages of getting married late?

OK, so seriously, I don’t know. lol. I just don’t like to plan in such a way like, I’ll get married when I reach 35, or I’ll get married when I’ve earned 100,000K. I just prefer it to be, I’ll get married when my relationship is making me feeling like going to another stage. Oh and yes, it took me really long to consider a relationship. I never go into a relationship because I need a bf. I go into a relationship because I think this person is going to be my soulmate and will possibly be spending the rest of his life with me.

Nicely said… teehee.

Although I personally don’t quite fancy about wedding - you know, the preparations and the huge crowd of people that you probably haven’t even met for ages, I do have an ideal wedding in my mind, which, of course, will change and get modified from time to time.

No it’s not going to be a wedding dinner. It has to be a wedding party, preferably a high-tea buffet or something like that. Ideally at the beach but I’m not considering any of the packages from the hotels. And my wedding photos are going to be from a freelance wedding photographer (not too expensive la of course) whom I can work with to get the feel I want - yes la I’m very particular when it comes to the visual thingy.

And then, I’ll design and print my own invitation cards. I prefer simple and sleek rather than the bulky type of wedding gowns so mine are going to be custom-made, and I’ll probably be getting them on Etsy. Kekeke. Yeah I like a lot of the unique and one-of-a-kind designs from many of the artists and designers there!

What else…

No I’m not inviting someone that I don’t know. Those attending are going to be my close family members and relatives, and my good friends. It’s going to be a party + gathering. Jewelry and ring wise… I haven’t really thought about this and am not really that particular about this anyway, so I shall skip this at the moment.

Hmm… I think that’s all I have in mind at the moment. Photos of the exact moments will only be available when I’m getting married for real. lol.

Tags: Beach, Gathering, Imagination, Married, Party, Wedding